![]() As a result, many men who developed their sexuality in that time were naturally versatile - and still are (this is why it's good to talk to your elders about sex). When public cruising and park sex were common features of gay life (the 70s, 80s), it was impossible to know if the hot guy you followed into the bushes was a top or bottom. There's a nuanced gray area between all these that is sadly lost. ![]() I'm forced to be looking now or not, interested or not, partnered or not. Online, I'm forced to be a top, bottom, or vers. It has reduced the richness of queer male sexuality into something simple. This has resulted in the widespread misconception among queer men that everyone must fall into one category or another. Modern technology - sex sites and hookup apps - created "top," "bottom," and "versatile." When sexual identities are codified - literally into code - sex roles become tags, filtering options, search parameters.
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